Resiliency

Resiliency is the ability to minimize the impact of stress and avoid the harm that stress can cause. It is your ability to bounce-back from the setbacks and difficulties of life. We build resiliency by addressing our stress, having fun, practicing relaxation, and using healthy coping skills. The negative impacts of stress on the brain and learning capacity are significant and should not be underestimated. We know that children and adolescents are likely to have prolonged detrimental effects, even into adulthood, from chronic stressors. Fortunately, childhood and adolescence are also times when resilience and resistance to stressors can be acquired. 

Stress can cause the following brain related issues:

When we are stressed, we are in a state of flight or fight known as the stress response.

The opposite of the stress response is the relaxation response. In the relaxation response, the body has decreased metabolism, heart rate, blood pressure, respiratory rate, and slowed brain waves. In this state, our brains are ready to receive information, make memories, and problem solve.

You can practice shifting your body to the relaxation response and thus build resiliency through techniques known as mind-body interventions. 

Here are three mind-body interventions you can try with your family: 

1.

Take a Breath

There are many breathing exercises that will trigger the relaxation response. One of Nectar’s coaches who was a veteran brought this one to us from his military training. Soldiers were taught to use it to calm their nervous system in battle. It is called Square Breathing. Give it try! We bet you’ll feel much more resilient in no time. Download the Square Breathing Instructions:

2.

Strike a Pose

Yoga is an excellent way to build resiliency through stress reduction. Yoga engages mind and body and is an excellent mind body intervention. You can go to a class or use a video online, but you can even incorporate short bursts of yoga for 5-10 minutes throughout the day. Check out some yoga poses from GoZen designed to release tension from the upper body where kids and grown-ups often hold their stress. Try one or all 8 and you’ll be feeling less stressed for certain.

3.

Pause for a Mindful Minute

Mindfulness practices are simply exercises that help you be present in the current moment versus ruminating on something stressful that has happened in the past or worrying about the future. One of our favorite ways to practice mindfulness is the The Five Senses Activity. This is a great one for people of all ages to bring their attention and focus to the present moment and reduce anxiety and stress. Download the Five Senses Worksheet:

Want to learn more about building resiliency to improve learning?

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We offer individual and family health and wellness coaching for customized support to reduce stress and increase resiliency and for the other keys to unlocking learning potential. Visit our integrated health and wellness coaching page for more information.

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Sutton, Jeremy. Positive Psychology (2022). How to Use Mindfulness Therapy for Anxiety: 15 Exercises.